Is it better to rent or buy a tuxedo in Charlotte?

Renting is budget-friendly and convenient for groomsmen. Buying is ideal for grooms who want to invest in quality or custom-tailored suits from Charlotte tailors like Taylor Richards & Conger.

What are the best colors for groomsmen suits?

Classic black for formal weddings, navy or charcoal for all seasons, and light grey or beige for summer weddings in Charlotte gardens or outdoor venues.

Should the groom wear something different from the groomsmen?

Yes, it's common for the groom to stand out slightly—whether with a different tie, boutonniere, or suit texture. It’s a subtle way to distinguish the groom while maintaining a cohesive look.

Who pays for the groomsmen’s suits?

Usually, each groomsman covers the cost of their attire unless the couple decides to gift it. A bride & groom should communicate early and clearly about expectations.

Wedding Planning Isn’t Just About the Bride, Let’s Talk About the Groom

jmajors
Jun 29
3 min read

At J. Major’s Bridal Boutique in Charlotte, NC, we’ve guided countless brides through dress shopping, and often, they bring one very important person into the conversation: the groom.

Whether you’re coordinating outfits, timelines, or responsibilities, every bride & groom faces a few common planning hurdles. Below, we’ve answered the top questions our Charlotte brides ask us about the groom and his groomsmen, so your entire party looks polished and feels prepared.

FAQs Charlotte Brides Ask About the Groom & Groomsmen

1. When should the groom get his suit or tux?

We recommend the groom start 4–6 months before the wedding. Local shops like Nordstrom SouthPark, The Tuxedo Shoppe, or Jos. A. Bank offer great options, especially if fittings or customizations are needed.

The same way a bride gets alterations, the groom should plan for tailoring if he’s buying.

2. Is it better to rent or buy a tux in Charlotte?

Renting is great for groomsmen or short-term needs. Charlotte options include Men’s Wearhouse, The Black Tux, and Stitch & Tie.
Buying is better for grooms who want to invest in a versatile, long-term suit. Stores like Taylor Richards & Conger specialize in upscale, Southern tailoring.

A bride & groom can weigh pros and cons together based on the budget and style goals.

3. Do the groomsmen need to match exactly?

Not always. While a cohesive look is ideal, more couples bride & groom teams alike are choosing mismatched elements: like matching suits but different ties, socks, or lapels for added personality.

4. What colors are best for Charlotte groomsmen suits?

Here are some local favorites:

Black tux for formal evening weddings
Navy or charcoal for a modern, elegant look
Beige or light grey for summer garden weddings in Charlotte

The groom’s suit should always reflect the overall vibe of the day—and coordinate with the bride’s dress and bridesmaid styles.

5. Do groomsmen have to wear boutonnieres?

Boutonnieres are a nice touch (and look great in photos), but not mandatory. If used, the groom’s boutonniere should reflect the bride’s bouquet, while the groomsmen’s can be simpler.

6. Who pays for the groomsmen’s attire?

Typically, each groomsman pays for his own suit rental or purchase, unless the bride & groom choose to cover it as part of their wedding gift.

7. Should the groom have a “getting ready” outfit like the bride?

Absolutely. Brides often wear robes or matching outfits and grooms can do the same. Monogrammed shirts, socks, or even a custom shaving kit can make the groom’s prep feel equally special.

It’s a fun way for the bride & groom to match energy and enjoy the morning.

8. How involved should the groom be in wedding planning?

There’s no set rule, but a growing number of grooms are fully involved in planning. We always suggest that the bride & groom divide tasks, music, bar, gifts, and ceremony wording are often great groom-led areas.

9. What are good gifts for groomsmen?

Some Charlotte-inspired ideas:

Bourbon from a local distillery
Monogrammed flasks or cufflinks
Charlotte Knights tickets or brewery tours
Matching socks or tie sets with initials or wedding date

These gifts can be from the groom alone or jointly from the bride & groom.

Final Thoughts from J. Major’s Stylists

As a bride & groom, you’re a team, so your wedding day style should feel cohesive, intentional, and true to both of you. From the bridal gown to the lapel pin, our team at J. Major’s can help guide not just the bride, but the entire wedding party.

Need help coordinating your wedding style with the groom’s suit and colors? We’re happy to help bring in swatches, mood boards, or Pinterest inspo to your appointment and let’s make sure your day reflects both of you.