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Name Change After Marriage: FAQs Brides Ask at J. Major’s Bridal Boutique

  • jmajors
  • 6 days ago
  • 3 min read

Wondering how to legally change your name after your wedding? You’re not alone. At J. Major’s Bridal Boutique in Charlotte, NC, many of our brides ask us what the process looks like. This guide covers the most frequently asked questions about changing your last name after marriage including where to start, what documents you need, and how long it takes.


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1. Do I have to change my name after marriage?

Nope! Changing your last name is completely optional. Some brides take their spouse’s name, others hyphenate or create a new last name together, and many keep their maiden name. Whatever you choose, the key is making it legally consistent across your documents if you do decide to change it.


2. How do I legally change my name after I get married?

To change your name legally, you’ll typically follow these steps:

  1. Get certified copies of your marriage certificate.

  2. Visit your local Social Security office to update your name.

  3. Once your new Social Security card arrives, update your driver’s license or ID.

  4. After that, update your name with banks, employers, insurance, utilities, and more.


3. What documents do I need to change my name?

You’ll usually need:

  • Your marriage certificate (certified copy)

  • Your current photo ID

  • Your Social Security card or number

  • Completed forms (like SS-5 for Social Security)

Some places may require proof of address or birth certificate, so it's smart to call ahead.


4. Where do I update my name first?

Most brides start with:

  1. Social Security Administration

  2. DMV (driver’s license/state ID)

  3. Passport (especially if traveling soon)Once these are updated, move on to banks, credit cards, insurance, employers, and voter registration.


5. How long does the name change process take?

It depends on how quickly each agency processes documents.

  • Social Security: About 10–14 business days

  • DMV: Often same-day

  • Passport: 6–8 weeks (expedited options available)

Plan on about 1–2 months to update everything fully.


6. What if I’m traveling soon after the wedding?

Always book your honeymoon under your current legal name (the one on your passport or driver’s license). You won’t have time to update all your documents before you travel. Wait to start the name change process until after you return.


7. Can I change my name online?

Some parts, yes:

  • You can fill out the Social Security form (SS-5) online but must mail or deliver it with your documents.

  • Many banks and employers now allow digital updates, especially if you upload a scanned marriage certificate.

  • However, the DMV and passport office usually require in-person or mailed submissions.


8. What if I want to keep my maiden name professionally?

You can! Many brides use their new name legally and their maiden name professionally. For example:

  • Legal documents: Jane Smith

  • Professional work: Jane Parker

You might also consider hyphenation or using your maiden name as a new middle name, which varies by state.


9. Are there name change services for brides?

Yes! Services like HitchSwitch, NewlyNamed, and MisstoMrs help automate the paperwork and provide pre-filled forms. They’re not required, but they can save you time and reduce hassle, especially if you're changing your name in multiple states or institutions.


Final Thoughts from J. Major’s

Changing your name after marriage is deeply personal. Whether you’re embracing a new last name or keeping your own, we support whatever feels right for you. Just like finding your perfect dress, your name should feel like “you.”


If you’re a Charlotte bride looking for wedding dresses, bridal styling, or post-wedding advice, we’re here for you every step of the journey.

 
 
 

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