What are the best registry stores in Charlotte?

Top choices include Crate & Barrel (SouthPark), Belk, Target, Amazon, and Zola. These are accessible and offer a wide range of gifts for guests.

Should I include registry info in my invitations?

No, registry info should be on your wedding website. Include a small insert with the URL in your invitation suite if needed.

How do we thank guests for registry gifts?

Send handwritten thank-you notes promptly. Mention the specific gift and how you plan to use it to make the note more personal.

Can I update my registry after sharing it?

Yes, modern platforms allow real-time edits. Update your registry as your needs or guest purchases change.

Wondering What to Put on Your Wedding Registry?

jmajors
5 days ago
3 min read

You’re not alone. At J. Major’s Bridal Boutique in Charlotte, NC, brides often turn to us with questions like "Where should we register?", "What’s appropriate to ask for?", or "How do I make sure our guests actually use it?" Whether you’re just getting started or updating your list, this guide answers the most common wedding registry questions we hear from real brides in our boutique.

FAQ: Top Wedding Registry Questions Charlotte Brides Ask Us

1. When should we start our wedding registry?

Start your registry 3 to 6 months before your wedding. This gives you time to add items, make edits, and ensure it’s live before your bridal shower or engagement party. Many guests shop early!

2. What should we include on our registry?

Think about three categories:

Essentials: Kitchenware, bedding, bath towels, dishes.
Upgrades: Better versions of things you already have like a nicer blender or cookware set.
Experiences: Honeymoon funds, date night gift cards, cooking classes many guests love gifting something fun.

Bonus tip: Don’t forget a range of price points ($25–$300+) so everyone feels comfortable shopping.

3. Is it okay to register for cash or a honeymoon fund?

Yes! Sites like Zola, Honeyfund, and The Knot make this easy. Guests actually appreciate the option to contribute to something meaningful. Just be sure to phrase it politely:

“Your presence is the best gift, but if you wish to contribute to our honeymoon adventures, we’d be so grateful.”

4. How many registries should we create?

Two is usually the sweet spot:

One major retailer (like Target, Amazon, or Crate & Barrel)
One specialty or experience-based registry (like Zola or Honeyfund)

Just make sure all registries are linked on your wedding website to avoid confusion.

5. What are the best wedding registry stores for Charlotte couples?

We recommend:

Bed Bath & Beyond (now online-only) – legacy favorite for kitchen and home
Crate & Barrel SouthPark – modern home essentials
Belk at SouthPark or Cotswold – locally-loved and great for traditional gifts
Target Midtown or SuperTarget on Tryon – convenient, budget-friendly, easy for guests
Amazon – universal registry with almost everything
Zola – combines physical gifts with experiences, cash, and travel

6. Should I include registry info on my invitations?

Not on your formal invitation. Etiquette suggests placing registry details on your wedding website instead. Include a small insert with your site’s URL in your invitation suite.

7. What if we already live together and have most things?

Opt for:

Upgrades to your current basics (ex: from Ikea to All-Clad)
Home improvement items (like storage or furniture)
Experience-based gifts (trips, classes, even wine subscriptions)
Charity donations for a cause close to your hearts

Guests still want to give make it meaningful or memorable.

8. Is it tacky to ask for expensive gifts?

Not if you balance your list. Having a few big-ticket items is totally fine as long as there are plenty of lower-priced options too. Guests often pool funds or shop as a group.

9. What’s the best way to thank guests who give from our registry?

Always send a handwritten thank you note, ideally within a few weeks of receiving the gift.
Mention the specific item and how you’ll use it:

“Thank you for the wine glasses, we can’t wait to use them for our first dinner party as newlyweds!”

10. Can I update or change my registry after sharing it?

Yes, and you should! Registries are meant to be fluid. As gifts are purchased or your needs change, feel free to add new items or update preferences. Most modern platforms sync in real time.

Final Advice from the J. Major’s Bridal Team:

Creating your wedding registry should feel joyful, not overwhelming. It’s a chance to dream about your life together and let others share in building it with you. Whether you’re outfitting a new home, upgrading hand me downs, or planning your first big adventure together, make your list authentic to you.

Need local tips on where to shop or what other Charlotte brides are adding to their lists? Just ask, we love helping our brides every step of the way.