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Your Ultimate Wedding Registry Guide for Charlotte Brides

  • jmajors
  • Jun 28
  • 3 min read

Updated: 3 days ago

FAQ: Top Wedding Registry Questions Charlotte Brides Ask Us


1. When should we start our wedding registry?

Start your registry 3 to 6 months before your wedding. This timeframe allows you to add items, make edits, and ensure it’s live before your bridal shower or engagement party. Many guests shop early!


2. What should we include on our registry?

Think about three essential categories:

  • Essentials: Kitchenware, bedding, bath towels, and dishes.

  • Upgrades: Better versions of items you already own, such as a nicer blender or cookware set.

  • Experiences: Honeymoon funds, date night gift cards, and cooking classes. Many guests love gifting something fun.


Bonus tip: Don’t forget to offer a range of price points ($25–$300+) so everyone feels comfortable shopping.


3. Is it okay to register for cash or a honeymoon fund?

Yes! Sites like Zola, Honeyfund, and The Knot make this easy. Guests appreciate the option to contribute to something meaningful. Just be sure to phrase it politely:

“Your presence is the best gift, but if you wish to contribute to our honeymoon adventures, we’d be so grateful.”

4. How many registries should we create?

Two is usually the sweet spot:

  • One major retailer (like Target, Amazon, or Crate & Barrel)

  • One specialty or experience-based registry (like Zola or Honeyfund)


Just ensure that all registries are linked on your wedding website to avoid confusion.


5. What are the best wedding registry stores for Charlotte couples?

We recommend:

  • Bed Bath & Beyond (now online-only) – A legacy favorite for kitchen and home essentials.

  • Crate & Barrel SouthPark – Offers modern home essentials.

  • Belk at SouthPark or Cotswold – Locally loved and great for traditional gifts.

  • Target Midtown or SuperTarget on Tryon – Convenient, budget-friendly, and easy for guests.

  • Amazon – A universal registry with almost everything you could need.

  • Zola – Combines physical gifts with experiences, cash, and travel.


6. Should I include registry info on my invitations?

Not on your formal invitation. Etiquette suggests placing registry details on your wedding website instead. Include a small insert with your site’s URL in your invitation suite.


7. What if we already live together and have most things?

Opt for the following:

  • Upgrades to your current basics (for example, from Ikea to All-Clad).

  • Home improvement items like storage solutions or furniture.

  • Experience-based gifts such as trips, classes, or even wine subscriptions.

  • Charity donations for a cause close to your hearts.


Guests still want to provide meaningful or memorable gifts.


8. Is it tacky to ask for expensive gifts?

Not if you balance your list. Having a few big-ticket items is perfectly fine, as long as there are plenty of lower-priced options too. Guests often pool funds or shop as a group.


9. What’s the best way to thank guests who give from our registry?

  • Always send a handwritten thank you note, ideally within a few weeks of receiving the gift.

  • Mention the specific item and how you’ll use it:

“Thank you for the wine glasses; we can’t wait to use them for our first dinner party as newlyweds!”

10. Can I update or change my registry after sharing it?

Yes, and you should! Registries are meant to be fluid. As gifts are purchased or your needs change, feel free to add new items or update preferences. Most modern platforms sync in real time.


Your Story Matters


Creating your wedding registry should be a joyful experience, not an overwhelming task. It’s an opportunity to dream about your life together and allow others to share in building it with you. Whether you’re outfitting a new home, upgrading hand-me-downs, or planning your first big adventure together, make your list authentic to you.


Local Insights


Need local tips on where to shop or what other Charlotte brides are adding to their lists? Just ask! We love helping our brides every step of the way.


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